Well as relative newbie (this will be our 3rd year), this is what we have found we like, but as you have discovered by now everybody has their own likes and dislikes so its what works best for you.
It really depends what you want, what your bees need to stay put / room. Most of ours are on double brood, we put some 14 x 12 in which I don't like so won't be going down that route anymore.
Double brood can be a pain sometimes particularly with a strong hive, don't believe they don't have queen cells in the bottom box, the bees (ours at least) don't seem to have read the books. It helps greatly if the queen is clearly marked and I now prefer clipped, there are a lot of bees in the 2 boxes with a decent strain of bee.
The stronger the hive the more honey you get, however you also run a greater risk of swarming, if that happens you will lose production. If you want to increase and split there are various methods. Personally I would replace a couple of frames with foundation to get your present hive to draw it out so you have comb for the other box. I do this throughout the season particularly on strong hives. I tend to put 12 frames in a new brood box, get them to draw it and remove one before it gets too tight. Then there is the deep end approach (thats us really) of sticking on another bb with foundation in once they really start to get going, although I would shift a couple of frames from the bottom box into the top. As for the split, well there is a fair chance you will need to do an AS, if you have a decent queen and good weather as we have found single brood isn't really big enough if the queen is decent (thanks HM) and you are not taking brood out. If that is the route you take you will end up with 2 weaker hives and miss out on brood for a while and have to wait and see if the queen gets mated, how well and with what. Or you can split earlier and buy in a queen when available. Or there is demarree / snelgrove.
There are so many choices, no real rights or wrongs, depends on what kit you have, what your priorities are. Whatever you choose you can bet that you wish you had chosen differently at somepoint for a reason you didn't think of at the time. Its fun this beekeeping lark.